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Needs Inventory

This list of needs is neither exhaustive nor definitive. It is meant as a starting place to support anyone who wishes to engage in a process of deepening self-discovery and to facilitate greater understanding and connection between people. You might also find the list of feelings useful.


Sustenance/Physical Well-Being
  • Air
  • Food
  • Protection
  • Rest/sleep
  • Sexual expression
  • Safety
  • Shelter
  • Touch
  • Water

Empathy


Honesty
  • Authenticity
  • Integrity
  • Presence
  • Self-worth

Autonomy
  • Choice
  • Freedom
  • Independence
  • Space
  • Spontaneity

Creativity
  • Self-expression

Recreation/Play
  • Celebration of life
  • Humor
  • Joy
  • Movement/exercise
  • Mourning

Peace
  • Beauty
  • Communion
  • Ease
  • Equality
  • Harmony
  • Inspiration
  • Order
Connection/Interdependence
  • Acceptance
  • Affection
  • Appreciation
  • Belonging
  • Closeness
  • Communication
  • Community
  • Companionship
  • Compassion
  • Consideration
  • Consistency
  • Cooperation
  • Inclusion
  • Intimacy
  • Love
  • Mutuality
  • Nurturing
  • Respect/Self-respect
  • Safety
  • Security
  • Stability
  • Support
  • To know and be known
  • To see and be seen
  • To understand and be understood
  • Trust
  • Warmth

Meaning
  • Awareness
  • Challenge
  • Clarity
  • Competence
  • Consciousness
  • Contribution
  • Discovery
  • Efficacy
  • Effectiveness
  • Growth
  • Hope
  • Learning
  • Participation
  • Purpose
  • Stimulation



You can download a PDF version of these lists from here.